What I love about food is its ability to communicate. The way we gather our ingredients, the way we cook and the way we eat all say something intrinsically personal about the way we are. The language of food is something I've been immersed in since starting my Masters of Gastronomy. One of my favourite authors on the subject is Roland Barthes. Barthes, through his works such as Mythologies and The Semiotic Challenge, asks us to think about the way we eat and prepare food as not some random assembly, but as a highly structured system of meaning...a form of language. It is when I cook with my mother that this language of food really speaks to me.
It all starts with the way she shops. We drive out to the south-western edge of Brisbane - a suburb with a not-so-nice reputation, called Inala. We wander through the mall lined with boxes of leafy Asian greens, herbs, exotic fruit and a thousand things I couldn't even begin to identify. I could very well be in a Bangkok market or a Singapore side street. My mother sniffs and picks her way through the produce. She knows what she's looking for and how it should feel, smell and taste. This is her language and it comes naturally to her.
And then we cook. Sheets of dark green banana leaves go flying as she washes them, strips them down and throws them over the flames of the gas stove. "This is how it's done," she says. It's the way she learnt in a small village in Thailand and it's the way I'm learning in a small Western kitchen in Australia. We're making Haw Mok Pla...a spicy fish mixture steamed in fresh banana leaves.
Watching, tasting and smelling is the only way to learn this language. Ask my mother for a recipe and there will inevitably be a missing ingredient or the wrong proportion of some vital flavour. For her, the language of Thai food is instinctive and so naturally spoken that when she tries to break it down there seems to be something lost in the translation.
As the little parcels steam, I can smell the pungent curry paste mixed with wafts of kaffir lime. Once cooked, the fish is tender and deeply infused with savoury spice.
This is my mother's recipe, as observed by me. I tried to interrupt her impromptu splashes of this and that with a measuring spoon or cup. Use your own sense of taste as a guide...peppery spice, sweet coconut, salty fish sauce and mellow kaffir lime...all these flavours should speak to you. They should tell you something of the flavours of Thailand, of my mother's heritage and of the language of food we share.
Haw Mok Pla - Steamed Fish in Banana Leaf Cups
Ingredients:
1kg snapper fillets, cut into medium chunks
1/4 cup red curry paste
1 cup coconut milk
4 Tbsp fish sauce
1 Tbsp sugar
2 eggs, lightly beaten
1pkt banana leaves*
2 cups chinese cabbage, thinly sliced
1/2 cup coconut cream
1 Tbsp cornflour
6 kaffir lime leaves, finely sliced
coriander leaves
basil leaves
3 large red chillies, seeds removed, cut into strips
*You should be able to find banana leaves at an Asian grocery store. If not, simply use ceramic ramekins instead.
To make the banana leaf cups, rinse banana leaves in water and dry with a tea towel. Wave the leaves over a gas stove flame, turning them over to soften each side. Use scissors to cut out 20cm rounds from the leaves. You will notice that one side of the leaf is dull in colour and the other is shiny. Stack two rounds together - dull sides facing inwards toward each other and the veins of the leaves running parallel. Make a pleat and secure with a toothpick (or take the easier option and use a stapler). Make three other pleats to form a square cup. Repeat this process with the banana leaves until you have 8 little cups.
Put the curry paste into a large bowl and soften with a fork. Whisk in the coconut milk, fish sauce, sugar and eggs. Add the snapper, mix well and set aside.
Whisk together coconut cream and cornflour in a saucepan. Heat and stir until the mixture coats the back of a spoon.
Place a small mound of shredded cabbage in the bottom of each cup. Top with the curry fish mixture. Garnish with a spoonful of the thick coconut cream, a basil leaf, a coriander leaf, shreds of kaffir lime leaves and a piece of chilli.
Put fish parcels into a steamer (with rapidly boiling water underneath) and steam for about 30 minutes. To test, insert a skewer into the fish, it should give quite easily and the spicy mixture around it should have set to a jellied custard consistency.
Serve with steamed rice.

